“I admit it’s difficult, but with [mental health] Support, legal aid and skills training, I have healed a lot,” she explained.
The basic service for survivors of domestic violence is a lifeline.
“I no longer feel like a prisoner, pushed into desperation, or betrayed. As a victim, there are many things to experience, including psychological [persecution] But now I know I can fulfill my wish.”
Diana is one of 199 female survivors who lived in the shelters attached to the Refuge Network of the Americas. UN Women pass through Spotlight Initiative In Latin America. Since 2017, the shelter has also provided psychosocial support and legal assistance to more than 1,057 women.
The full story of Diana is here.
The survivors are now “excited about the future”
At the same time, as Coronavirus disease The pandemic swept through Bangladesh, triggered a surge in VAWG, and many shelters and basic services closed
Romera married a cruel and torturing man.
“When I was pregnant, he punched me fiercely and I eventually lost my child… I wanted to end my life,” she said.
When her brother took her to the hospital, she finally escaped Tarango The Women’s Refuge, in cooperation with UN Women, can expand its comprehensive plan to provide safe temporary shelter, legal and medical services, and vocational training for abused women who are looking for a new starting point.
Living in abusive relationships often erode women’s choices, self-esteem, and potential. Romera found a place where she could live safely with her 4-year-old daughter.
Opening a new chapter in her life, she reflected: “Others always tell me how to dress, where to go, and how to live my life. Now, I know these choices are in my hands.”
The liberated women said: “I am more confident and my life is happier.”
Tarango House 30-35 survivors at any given time and provide 24/7 services to help them recover from trauma, regain dignity, learn new skills, and receive job placement and two-month cash grants to establish Their economic resilience.
“Our job is to make women feel safe and empowered, and treat them with the utmost respect and compassion,” said project coordinator Nazlee Nipa.
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Hard fight with in-laws
Goretti returned to western Kenya to bury her husband in 2001 and stayed at home in accordance with local cultural regulations.
“But they didn’t give me food. Everything I brought from Nairobi—clothing, household items—was taken from me and distributed among my family,” she recalled.
For nearly 20 years after her husband’s death, Goretti remained in an abusive life until her in-laws beat her so that she was hospitalized and unable to work.
Fearing to go to law enforcement, Goretti instead contacted a local human rights defender who helped her seek medical treatment and reported the case to local authorities.
However, she soon discovered that her in-laws had reached a withdrawal agreement with the police in her name.
“But I can’t even write,” Goretti said.
Human rights defenders in Kenya are often the first responders to violations including gender-based violence. Since 2019, UN Women and the Office of the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights (OHCHR) Has been supporting grassroots organizations that provide legal training and capacity building to better help survivors.
In addition to reporting the issue to the local police and courts, human rights defender Caren Omanga, trained by these organizations, also contacted local elders.
“I was almost arrested while confronting the person in charge,” Ms. Omanga explained. But knowing that the community would oppose Goretti, she started an “alternative dispute resolution process while bringing the case to court.”
Finally, with the settlement of her case out of court, Goretti received an agreement granting her lost property and land ownership in the dowry, and the perpetrator was forced to pay a fine to avoid jail.
“It’s like starting a new life 20 years later. My son feels safer… I am considering planting some trees to protect the plot and build a poultry house,” she said.
Read the full story of Goretti here.
In Moldova, sexual harassment and violence are taboo topics, and victims rarely report incidents due to fear of being blamed or stigmatized.
At the age of 14, Milena was raped by her boyfriend in Chisinau. She did not know that her assault was a sexual assault, and continued to meet with the abuser for six months before breaking up. Then she tried to forget it.
“This memory was blocked, as if nothing happened” until two years later, she saw an Instagram video that triggered a flashback of her attack on herself, she said.
According to reports, almost one in five men in Moldova have sexually abused girls or women, including in romantic relationships 2019 research Published jointly by UN Women.
Determined to understand what happened to her, Milena learned more about sexual harassment and abuse, and later began to raise awareness in her community.
Last year, she participated in the UN Women’s Youth Mentoring Program, where she received training in gender equality and human rights, and learned to recognize abuse and challenge gender-based comments and harassment.
Milena continues to develop a self-help guide for survivors of sexual violence, which provides information from survivors between the ages of 12 and 21, and provides practical guidelines for seeking help, reporting abuse, and accessing trauma recovery resources.
In the context of cultural victims accusing them of preventing people in need from getting help, the guidance plan focuses on feminist values and diversity, and addresses the root causes of gender inequality and stereotypes that perpetuate GBV and discrimination.
“The plan shows that youth initiative and participation are the key to eliminating gender inequality in our society,” explained Dominika Stojanoska, UN Women’s Country Representative in Moldova.
Read more about Milena here.
Support survivors and break the cycle of violence
A national survey in 2019 revealed that only three of 100 survivors of sexual violence in Morocco reported the incident to the police because they were afraid of being humiliated or blamed and lacked trust in the justice system.
Laila began to build a relationship with the head of a company where she worked. He told her that he loved her and she trusted him.
“But whenever I disagreed with his point of view, he would hit me. I endured everything from sexual violence to emotional abuse… He made me believe that I had no chance to fight him,” she said.
Laila, who was pregnant, unmarried, and lonely, finally called the police.
To her comfort, a female police officer met her and said that there was a solution.
“I will never forget this. This has become my life motto. Her words encourage me to tell her the whole story. She cares and pays attention to me very much,” Layla continued.
She was referred to a local single mother shelter, where she was given a second chance.
Two years ago, she gave birth to a daughter and recently completed a bachelor’s degree in mathematics.
“I study while taking care of my children in a single mother shelter,” she said, holding her daughter’s hand.
UN Women insists that building trust and confidence in the police is an indispensable part of crime prevention and community safety.
When professionally trained police handle GBV cases, survivors are more likely to report abuse and seek justice, health, and psychosocial service This helps break the cycle of violence while sending a clear message that this is a punishable crime.
In the past few years, with the support of UN Women, the National Security Directorate has reorganized the National Police Force to better support female survivors and prevent VAWG.
Today, all 440 regional police stations have dedicated staff to refer female survivors to the nearest specialized unit.
“It takes a lot of determination and courage for women to seek support from the police,” said Saliha Najeh, chief of police of the police department for female victims of violence in Casablanca. The GBV case uses a survivor-centric approach.
As of 2021, 30 senior police officers and unit leaders have received training through the program.
She said: “Our duty is to make survivors feel safe and comfortable at all times, and to make them trust us enough to tell their stories.”
Driven by the COVID-19 pandemic, Morocco has also expanded survivors’ remote reporting and access to justice through a 24-hour free helpline, electronic complaint mechanism and online court meetings.
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These stories were originally published by UN Women.